Couples' 3-Step Script: Feedback Without the Blow-Up
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Couples' 3-Step Script: Feedback Without the Blow-Up

By Ade Sobanjo
Online event

Overview

Stop the fights! Master the 3-Step Script to give your spouse feedback without defensiveness or blow-ups. Build connection, not conflict.

Couples' 3-Step Script: Feedback Without the Blow-Up


Are you tired of having the same argument every month?

Does trying to correct your spouse instantly trigger defensiveness, resentment, or a full-blown shutdown?

It's not what you're saying—it's how you're saying it. Most people approach feedback as a moment to be "right," which immediately puts their partner in "fight or flight" mode.

Join our high-impact, 90-minute workshop to stop the cycle of conflict and learn the single most effective communication framework used by top relationship coaches.


What You Will Master: The 3-Step Script

This workshop is dedicated to mastering The Affirmation Sandwich—a simple, three-part formula that transforms criticism into cooperative guidance.

You will walk away with a ready-to-use script that ensures you are heard, understood, and that your feedback builds connection instead of tearing it down.


Key Takeaways in 90 Minutes:

  • Mindset Shift: Learn the "Right vs. Relationship Test" to instantly determine if you should speak now or wait, preventing 80% of accidental arguments.
  • Timing Triage: Master the H.A.L.T. technique to ensure you never initiate a difficult conversation when you are emotionally depleted.
  • Step 1: The Soft Start: How to begin the conversation with genuine connection and use the "Gentle Invitation" to prepare your spouse to listen.
  • Step 2: The Core Message: Master the powerful I-Statement Formula to communicate your feelings and needs without using blame or criticism.
  • Step 3: The Collaborative Close: Turn your complaint into a shared solution using a partnership-focused request, ensuring future behavior change instead of just apologies.
  • Handling the Pushback: Learn how to "Validate and Re-route" when your spouse gets defensive, immediately de-escalating the conversation before it turns into a blow-up.

This is not theory; it is a practical, immediate tool you can use tonight to start building a healthier, less reactive marriage.

Stop fighting the same fight. Start solving the problem.

Register now to secure your spot!

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  • 1 hour 30 minutes
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Dec 8 · 6:00 PM PST