The Over-Functioners Guide To Optimal Functioning

Kelsey Grant is passionate about living in a world where people feel inspired, fulfilled, balanced and happy within the expansiveness of their intimate relationships.As a Love and Relationship Educator rooted in Radical Self Love Methodology, she writes, speaks and teaches, men and women the art of accessing greater alignment with themselves, one another and the essence of true love.Her love and relationship education platform, The Legendary Love Academy, produces live events, online self-study programs, online group classes, local and international retreats, all designed to teach the art of uncrossing the wires of understanding between men and women, expanding self-awareness and levelling up relational development, so legendary love, healthy relationships and sustainable partnership become possible again in this disconnected digital age.In addition to her commitment to love and relationship education, her passion for producing epic high level events runs deep. She is the producer and event director for MOTU Summit and her flagship day training Get the Love Worth Having. Her previous producing credits include Awesomeness Fest and Mantalks.Links:Website: www.kelseygrant.comFacebook:https://www.facebook.com/RadicalSelfLoveTwitter:https://twitter.com/RadSelfLoveInstagram:http://instagram.com/radicalselflove/

Kelsey Grant

A drop in class for all ya'll over-functioners who want to stop over-doing it and build healthy balanced relationships.

Let&#x27;s get one thing straight. Over-functioning isn&#x27;t cute. But for so many of us we were sold the IDEA that being HELPFUL is honourable (which it is) but when it becomes the recurring role you&#x27;re playing in relationships it can be so draining. Not only is it draining for you, but it sets up a disempowering dynamic in a relationship. Because in order for an over-functioner to over-function, they need to be paired with an under-functioner. Someone who wants to be rescued, taken care of and coddled. This isn&#x27;t to throw shade on either side, but it is an unhealthy relational dynamic that has to shift if we want to preserve our vitality, sanity and the gifts of our innate generosity. The gift of the over-functioner is generosity. No doubt about that. But in over-functioning land, there is a shadow side. When generosity is turned up too loud it can throw off the delicate balance of partnership and move the relationship into a parent/child or teacher/student dynamic....which is so not sexy. Not only does the over-functioner/under-functioner dance dissolve intimacy, it also holds both people back from their true agency and potentiality. <h2>If you&#x27;ve noticed this pattern this class is for you: </h2>• You often take the role of leader, teacher or parent in your romantic and non-romantic relationships.• Many people come to you to help solve their problems because they know you&#x27;ll do the heavy lifting and uncomfortable work for them.• You feel its your job to fix problems all on your own- even when you have others to help you. • Often your partner feels more like your child than your equal. • You &quot;take care of everything&quot; because it comes naturally to you AND because it helps you soothe your anxiety of things not getting done. • You&#x27;re known for your immense capacity to love, listen and understand. • You&#x27;re known for your innate generosity and willing to give. • You regularly feel burnt out. • You rarely take time for yourself to relax, and when you do, you find it hard to sit still for too long. • You have a difficult time receiving.• You feel overly responsible and often take more responsibility than is actually yours to handle. • You tend to partner up with people who are easy going, chill and you guessed it... under-function once things get comfy. • Your partners have a history of being taken care of, rescued or taking more than they give (this can also show up in your relationship with them).If ANY of those ring true for you, this class is made for YOU! <h2>In this drop in class we&#x27;ll explore the following: </h2>• The roots of the under-functioning, over-functioning dance. • Why over-functioning is an intimacy blocker and how to create more internal and external safety around emotional intimacy. • The related negative impacts of this pattern on your life, your vitality, your presence and your purpose.• The secondary gains we unconsciously hold when it comes to this recurring pattern. • The underlying wounding patterns at play with an over-functioning relational template.• The unconscious commitments we have operating inside the desire to be OVERLY helpful, generous or take care of things for others.• The early signs of an OF/UF relational dynamic and how to nip those patterns early. • The pathway through shifting this power dynamic if in a long-term relationship and move it towards more optimal functioning. • What to be prepared for when you begin to set healthier boundaries with the under-functioner. • What to be prepared to experience when you begin to set healthier boundaries AS the over-functioner.<h2>LOGISTICS</h2>Course Materials Released: June 14th 2020 Live Call: June 27th 2020 11am-12pm PSTRegistration Options: Early Bird: $39 Regular: $49(Or bundle this class with any of the previous classes in the drop-in series- options for this below)<h2>How It Works: </h2>1. You&#x27;ll receive the content first in a digital classroom (this includes video content, audio content and PDF worksheets). On JUNE 14th this course material will be available to all registered participants through my online relationship academy, the Legendary Love Academy. You will receive a personal login (and if you&#x27;re a current member this course will be added to your library). 2. Two weeks later, on JUNE 27th at 11am we&#x27;ll be doing a LIVE session dedicated to more community Q/A along with a short teaching segment centred around the content you&#x27;ve had time to previously go through and digest.If you&#x27;re unable to attend the live call, the replay will be uploaded to your course materials within 48hrs of the live session. You will have lifetime access to all course materials and recording of the Live Q/A as well as access to any future live Q/A replay&#x27;s I do for this particular class. Drop in classes are organized this way to honour the process of digesting information in a way that you can really metabolize and integrate. When a tonne of information comes at us all at once it can be overwhelming for the system. When you have space to pace yourself through the content it allows for the LIVE session to be about YOU and what is truly relevant to your process. By doing the teaching in the self-study virtual classroom you can go at your own pace and reflect on questions that would be meaningful to you for the live. <h2>Want to Bundle This Class With Another One in the Series? </h2>This class is the final one in a four part series. The previous classes in the series were: • Rebuilding Relational Trust After It&#x27;s Been Busted- How to Heal Trust Issues and Betrayal Breakdowns.• Rebooting From Rejection- How to Deal with Ghosting, Rejection and Abandonment. • Emotional Manipulation 101- How to Prevent Being Taken Advantage Of.<h3>Your bundle options: </h3>1. You can choose to bundle this class with one other class for $49.2. Bundle this class with two other classes for : $793. Bundle this class with all three other classes for: $99 If you would like to bundle there is an option to select in the ticket checkout. The bundle is absolutely the best bang for your buck, because let&#x27;s be honest, when it comes to relational education all of these topics truly matter.

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